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Can't be open on fb so I have to say it here.



It's easy to judge when you're not in someone else's shoes. Don't talk shit. If you got everything you want it's easy.



Don't point the finger, you have other three pointing at you. Fed up of a certain someone.



Don't say you hate something, then 'cause you obtain you say you love it. A love relationship is between two people not the entire fb.



"money is not everything.'' yes do you realize in order to get healthy you need food and for food you need money? Do you realize that for clothes, shelter and other needs, you need money?



Judging and pre-judging are different. When you form an opinion it's always judging.



Can't stand people who are always stealing quotes and memes, with cliche' phrases. A thought of your own please?



Yesterday we talked about marriage and my opinion is this, relationships fail because people don't want commitment and because society influences us to marry because it's normal and if you don't conform you're left out and society also makes it look perfect and a problem solver, which is not.

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lordess
10:01 Feb 22 2014

Margaret Thatcher once famously said that there's no such thing as society, just individuals and families. I feel that a power family - regardless whether it's blood or not - took the opportunity to wield power and influence over the more susceptible others. And people loosely call this group "society".

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LoxxyDarkmatter
20:28 Mar 03 2014

I understand this 10000%.. thanks for this *smiles*

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Actually this stuff doesn't happen only on vr. It happens on any social site and after all anywhere where there are people.



People see a social site and don't bother what's it about. They just log in, create a profile and hope to get what they're looking for. It's not because it's vr.



In my life I found temptation everywhere. On social sites, including here, on the work placement, school, and anywhere.



This also makes me think about stuff that seems to happen on here and anywhere else in general. What I'm talking about is, relationships with already taken people.



When I talk this with various people, it seems that morality and mutual respect really doesn't exist anymore. It seems that people don't give a fuck that a person is taken. They still want them. They don't bother to hurt the other person. I don't care if it's the taken person who makes the first move, a person who is taken is untouchable.



Apart from this, why involve yourself in drama and trouble? Why get into this shit when you're risking a punch in the face and getting hurt emotionally?



I meet various people and almost no one agrees with me. They told me, that if they are single they go for it, because when you're single you have nothing to lose and have freedom. What the fucken fuck, seriously?



Then complain because they got hurt?



I repeat why get into this type of shit if you don't want drama?



Seems to me people like to play with fire and then cry because they got burnt. Wtf is this logic?



The logic of the egoistical and immorality? It's stupid.

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HeathenDeity
20:36 Feb 19 2014

I agree with you. The world is extremely twisted when it comes to sex- for many people it's just an impulse and holds no actual intimacy, so why would they care? They haven't been fortunate enough to understand a true relationship, so they just don't understand.

or they do, and are just jerks ;P but I think the vast majority just don't get it.

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deathnitegrl
21:33 Feb 19 2014

yeah, I understand it even though I never had long relationships, and maybe that's why I fail, 'cause I don't like this idea that sex is just physical.

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lordess
09:23 Feb 20 2014

Very good journal entry, deathnitegrl! You are very intelligent, indeed.



I think it's just a "growing up" phase that some who engage in this act go through. Some are just curious, like myself. Then there are some who take it very seriously. I don't mean to sound cheap, but if it happens to you and the other party is cute, go for it. It's just harmless flirting afterall.



However, if either of the parties are already in a relationship, then moralistically it is questionable whether engaging in such acts is right or wrong. To me, it is tantamount to cheating or adultery. Therefore, one could conclude that it's warped, twisted and wrong. I think one should take a stand and be firm.



If there is a meeting of the minds, I believe it can be a fun experience. If not, then just laugh it off. *shrugz*

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lordess
09:33 Feb 20 2014

Also, I believe it happens anywhere online. It happens on Rave, too? Ah well.

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dabbler
10:14 Feb 22 2014

I met a member here that I moved to Florida to meet. Though we are no longer together.

However we started as friends, and had an online courtship. What I see is that people online tend to "put the peddle to the metal" going from zero to cybering without courtship.. let alone foreplay.

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1. Had my vr 9th anniversary on the 16th.



2. I am sick again.



3. Got to know about some drinking contest on face-book and you-tube, and this made me seriously ask on Google: why teenagers are stupid? I found two scientific articles about this. The brain is not fully developed at that age. Yes thing is that it's getting worse, worse and worse. I think this is the worst generation that the world has seen. However the saddest thing is, that there are adults who still never grow up.



4. Question: Do people still go on the Sci-fi and superhero sites? They seem abandoned. And does anyone have trouble going on Gothic invasion? I only see a white page with links when I enter it.

Here 12am passed already.



So this is how my v-day went: First it was a terrible morning, then I had a headache then I saw someone I didn't want to.



This is my life.

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lordess
03:52 Feb 19 2014

Like allbthings, this too shall pass. And it has!

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This year's v-day is going to happen on a Friday and the full moon.

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lordess
14:37 Feb 13 2014

Oh, brilliant. More significance. :/

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDmVF_ku7vE

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BLOODLIFE
14:50 Feb 10 2014

Very cynical but made me quietly smile.

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I hardly ever socialize even though I have friends. I refuse socialisation even though I can meet more people and get more friends. Yet I tend to get aloof. I need my own space but after sometime I want company and tonight I hanged out with friends and enjoyed it. Now I regret the times I stayed in. Anyway I'm glad I enjoyed the break.

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lordess
13:39 Feb 09 2014

Sounds like a good thing to do. :)

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These last two Sats we had heavy rains and today that is sunny I had to be sick. Oh well, there's Batman Returns on TV.



My VR's 9th year anniversary will be on the 16th and in July it will be the site's 10th anniversary.



This month we'll also celebrate St.Valentine's day. A day that you love it, hate it or ignore it. Thus we'll see lonely journal entries. Thing is, if people threat it as a normal day, they wouldn't feel depressed. Be happy that you have a good family and/or true friends, like that you won't feel alone.



And if you don't have either, just learn to love yourself. In the end we're all alone walking the life's journey. If you love yourself, the single life won't be bad.

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lordess
13:41 Feb 09 2014

The single life is just horrid, tbh. That doesn't mean I hate myself... Well, sometimes I do, but that's a separate story.



Another VDay alone. I'll be on Rave, though, feeling sorry for myself.

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deathnitegrl
22:47 Feb 09 2014

life is more beautiful if there's a good relationship but I understand what you mean. I too go from times when I hate being single, that's why sometimes I need company.

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lordess
11:26 Feb 10 2014

Yes, that's understandable. :)

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Fook! Seems I'll have another week of eating plain food again. This time I have a glandole infiammation. I've been getting sick since the begining of October and got worse from December onward.



People have been complaining about snow. Where I live it doesn't snow but it still gets cold and people get sick.



One positive note I got promoted to AHM :)